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6 must-know stoner etiquette tips every Michigander needs to master

Whether you’re a seasoned toker or still new to the cannabis game, mastering stoner etiquette is absolutely essential to keeping the vibes positive and the rotation smooth.

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Ready to elevate your next smoke sesh and become the ultimate chill companion? Just don’t bogart the joint. 

MICHIGAN—Whether you’re a seasoned toker or still new to the cannabis game, mastering stoner etiquette is absolutely essential to keeping the vibes positive and the rotation smooth—and ensuring your stoner friends invite you back to the next smoke circle.

So, here are six tips (from a Michigan stoner) to keep in mind for your next smoke session:

Bring your own bud. 

While sharing is a cornerstone of cannabis culture, it’s always polite to bring your own supply. And with the average ounce of weed going for a shockingly low $85 in Michigan this summer, there’s no excuse not to make a stop at the pot shop on the way to your next social gathering.

Contributing to the communal stash also shows respect and appreciation for your fellow stoners—so don’t show up empty-handed. If you’re low on cash or simply don’t know what to buy, then consider bringing some snacks, drinks, or other contributions to the sesh instead.

Mind the rotation.

Passing etiquette is crucial in any session, and it ensures everyone gets their fair share of the stash. Keep the circle moving smoothly by always passing to the left. The “puff, puff, pass” rule is a golden one in the stoner community. Just take two hits and pass it over to your neighbor.

Don’t bogart the joint.

Taking forever with the joint is a major faux pas. Hit it, enjoy, and pass it along without delay.

If you’re engaged in conversation, pause to take your turn quickly to keep the flow going. If your “really awesome” story was long enough for the joint to burn out, you’re probably doing it wrong.

Remember, everyone’s there to enjoy the experience together.

Respect personal space and boundaries.

Not everyone has the same tolerance or comfort level with cannabis. Respect your friends’ limits and don’t pressure anyone to partake more than they’re comfortable with—especially with dabs. 

Similarly, be mindful of personal space and always avoid blowing smoke directly at someone. 

Keep it clean.

Handle bongs, pipes, and other gear with care. No one wants a slobbery mouthpiece or sticky mess, so always clean up after yourself and help tidy up post-session. It’s just good manners.

Offer to help the newbies.

If someone in your circle is new to cannabis, don’t leave them in the deep end. 

Instead, you can try to guide them through their experience by sharing tips on dosing, explaining different strains, and ensuring they feel comfortable and informed. Being a helpful guide can enhance everyone’s experience and foster a welcoming environment at your next session. 

Just be careful to be attentive, respectful, and to avoid dominating the conversation. A good smoking session is as much about the company you keep as it is about the cannabis itself. 

Bonus Tip: Know your limits.

Understanding and respecting your own limits is also essential. Overindulging can lead to discomfort and ruin the vibe for everyone. Start slow, especially with edibles or concentrates, and listen to your body. A responsible approach helps ensure a positive experience for all.

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